Sometimes when I receive emails from or have discussions with women regarding their current boyfriend or a guy who they are thinking of becoming exclusive with, one thing seems to be apparent to onlookers, but missed by the person in the relationship.
There is a big difference between liking someone, and liking the idea of someone.
I think we have all been there. We begin to miss an ex or become excited about someone new. But are we really missing the ex, or are we missing the things we did and had with them? Are we really excited about this new person, or are we just enjoying the companionship which we could get from anyone who texts us nice things and compliments us?
A lot of times when I ask a woman what it is she likes about someone she is seeing, there are many times where the answers are…